Relationship, Reconciliation & Embodiment coach,
partner, mother and your guide to reigniting the trust, depth, connection and intimacy in your
long-term relationship with the partner
you're not ready to give up on.
ABOUT MY WORK
I help people in long-term relationships reclaim deep connection, intimacy and passion with the partner they don't want to walk away from.
My work is for the person who wants to bring their relationship back from the brink, who has tried everything else and doesn't know what else to do.
Who isn't ready to burn it all to the ground, but who feels stuck, lost, disconnected and exhausted by it all. Who misses and craves the deep connection and intimacy that was once present in her relationship.
This person knows there’s more available to them within their relationship - a deeper sense of connection and ease - and they're no longer willing to settle for a relationship that feels like flatmates or two ships passing in the night.
They are ready to take radical responsibility.
I’m a Feminine Embodiment Coach, certified by the School of Embodied Arts.
People who work with me feel more connected to pleasure, presence, and possibility in their relationships and beyond.
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My signature framework guides our work - a wholistic process that supports you to come home to yourself and reconnect with your inner truth, pleasure and presence as a path to deepening your relationship with your long-term partner.
You’ll be held, supported, and guided in a space that honours your full body experience, meeting you where you are and guiding you toward the woman you’re becoming and the relationship you deeply crave.
Bella is an exceptional coach with a rare depth of insight into intimacy, feminine embodiment, and relational dynamics. Her work goes far beyond surface-level communication tools. She understands the nervous system, emotional safety, and the subtle patterns that shape long-term relationships from both technical perspectives and the wisdom of incredible lived experience.
Bella has a grounded, intuitive presence paired with sharp discernment; she asks the questions most people avoid but the ones that create real, lasting change. She has a unique ability to hold women with compassion while also guiding them toward responsibility, self-connection, and empowered choice. The way she integrates embodiment, coaching, and relational intelligence makes her work both profound and practical. Bella is the kind of coach who doesn’t just offer insight, she facilitates true transformation. She is the real deal and her containers offer a world class experience to those lucky enough to experience her magic.
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Canada
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Aliesha,
Candlewick Design
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“Negroni was the single best decision I made when trying to get my brand off the ground. Five stars!”
Aliesha,
Candlewick Design