Relationship, Reconciliation & Embodiment coach,
partner, mother and your guide to reigniting the trust, depth, connection and intimacy - whether you’re saving your relationship, reconciling with the person you’re not ready to give up on, or starting fresh.
BELLA K
ABOUT MY WORK
I help people create the relationship they want - whether they’re saving the one they’re in, finding their way back to someone they’re not ready to let go of, or starting fresh without carrying the old wounds with them.
My work is for the person whose relationship is on the brink, or already over, or caught somewhere in between. They’ve tried everything they can think of - the talks, the texts, the letters, the promises - and they don’t know what else to do.
They’re stuck, lost, disconnected and exhausted by it all. They miss the depth, ease and intimacy that was once there, and they know there’s more available to them - in this relationship or the next one.
They’re done waiting for the other person to change first. They understand the real work is on themselves - and they’re ready to take radical responsibility for their part, whatever the outcome.
This isn’t about tactics or strategies to get someone back. It’s about understanding the role you’ve played, the patterns and beliefs driving how you show up - and working with your body and nervous system so the change actually sticks.
People who work with me feel calmer, clearer and more connected - to themselves, to presence and possibility, in their relationships and beyond.
“Negroni was the single best decision I made when trying to get my brand off the ground. Five stars!”
Aliesha,
Candlewick Design
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HIGH TOUCH 1:1 coaching
Deep, personalised support built entirely around you and your situation, with direct access to me between sessions.
Guided by my signature framework, we build your capacity to stay present, sit with discomfort and have the difficult conversations - the things that let a relationship expand rather than collapse.
You’ll learn to step out of the story you keep replaying and back into what you’re actually experiencing, because that’s where real change happens.
You’ll be held, supported and guided, starting exactly where you are.
Relationships & Reconciliation - 12-week group program
Create the relationship you want in 12 weeks - whether you’re saving yours, reconciling or starting fresh. Fortnightly live calls,
a supportive community, and the comfort of knowing you’re not the only one going through this.
Bella is an exceptional coach with a rare depth of insight into intimacy, feminine embodiment, and relational dynamics. Her work goes far beyond surface-level communication tools. She understands the nervous system, emotional safety, and the subtle patterns that shape long-term relationships from both technical perspectives and the wisdom of incredible lived experience.
Bella has a grounded, intuitive presence paired with sharp discernment; she asks the questions most people avoid but the ones that create real, lasting change. She has a unique ability to hold women with compassion while also guiding them toward responsibility, self-connection, and empowered choice. The way she integrates embodiment, coaching, and relational intelligence makes her work both profound and practical. Bella is the kind of coach who doesn’t just offer insight, she facilitates true transformation. She is the real deal and her containers offer a world class experience to those lucky enough to experience her magic.
Robyn Gooding
Canada
“Negroni was the single best decision I made when trying to get my brand off the ground. Five stars!”
Aliesha,
Candlewick Design
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