Back in April 2020, I knew something was very wrong in my marriage.

It felt like we had passed a point of no return.

You can see the look in my eyes.

The sadness. The grief. The acceptance.

Like something life-changing and incredibly difficult was on the horizon.

If you’ve been following my story for a while, you know what happens next.

A difficult and heart-breaking journey of separation and divorce with the father of my son…

To say it was the hardest thing I’ve ever been through is an understatement.

If you’re in the place I was in back then, or close to it, here’s what you need to know –

You don’t have to go down the same path that I did.

It is possible to bring back trust, connection, honesty, love, deep intimacy and pleasure in your long-term relationship, without burning it all to the ground first.

I know this because 5 years after separating, my partner and I are now reconciled.

It didn’t happen overnight. It happened over 18 months with a lot of hard work between us.

But before that could happen, I had to work on myself.

I journeyed through layers of hurt, abandonment and conditioning and learnt how to put grounded boundaries in place.

I learnt how to prioritise my own pleasure without shame or guilt.

I began to articulate what I wanted my intimate relationship to look like and I got very comfortable communicating it.

It was through embodiment practices that I was able to do all of this. Not counselling or therapy. That never worked for me.

Feminine embodiment brought me into the most honest, deep and truthful relationship I’ve ever had with myself.

And it was from this place that I was able to be open to the idea of reconciling with the man I never stopped loving, despite all the hurt and pain we had been through.

Your relationship isn’t going to change if you keep showing up the same way every day.

And yes, it takes two.

But here’s the hard truth.

If you want your relationship to improve, you have to do the work on yourself.

Inside REIGNITE, my 8-week group coaching program, we do this work together.

I will share with you, over weeks, what it took me years to learn about how to show up authentically so that I could create the relationship I truly desired.

Doors open on October 13th, 2025.

I welcome you to join the waitlist now.

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