IN A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP THAT HAS FALLEN FLAT, BUT YOU'RE NOT QUITE READY TO GIVE UP ON HIM?
Then you're in the right place.
Welcome to REIGNITE.
This is the group coaching program designed for the woman who feels lost, disconnected and unhappy in her relationship.
Who wants to reignite the connection, passion and intimacy that used to be ever-present, who believes that the relationship can be reawakened … but isn’t sure how.
This program is for you if you’re not quite ready to walk away.
You used to have a relationship that was hot, connected and intimate.
You had a beautiful love and friendship, confided everything in one another and loved spending countless hours together.
Now it feels like you’re flatmates, co-parents raising kids or just two ships passing in the night.
Perhaps you’re working hard as the bread-winner, you’re making all the decisions about how to run the household, and you’re exhausted.
Maybe you’re a stay-at-home mum; perhaps you’ve been going through multiple rounds of IVF and it’s impacting your relationship.
The fire has been stamped out.
You’re having little to no sex and when you are, it feels rote or you're doing it out of a sense of obligation.
Any intimacy you had left has been replaced with small and big arguments.
Conversations have been narrowed down to life admin.
You’re experiencing multiple misunderstandings and irritations.
You’ve already invested time and money in couples counselling, therapy or external distractions - but nothing has shifted. You still feel helpless and desperately unhappy.
You’re scared your relationship is slipping toward an inevitable ending, about the impact walking away would have on you, your family and friends and if you’re a mother - your children. You’re feeling the pressure to keep it all together.
And on top of it all – as if all of this wasn’t enough - you’re feeling guilty that you’re unsatisfied with your lot in life, especially because you’ve been told over and over that “you should be grateful for everything you’ve got”.
You used to have a relationship that was hot, connected and intimate.
You had a beautiful love and friendship, confided everything in one another and loved spending countless hours together.
Now it feels like you’re flatmates, co-parents raising kids or just two ships passing in the night.
Perhaps you’re working hard as the bread-winner, you’re making all the decisions about how to run the household, and you’re exhausted.
Maybe you’re a stay-at-home mum; perhaps you’ve been going through multiple rounds of IVF and it’s impacting your relationship.
Wherever it is that you find yourself right now, one thing is for sure - your relationship feels flat and lifeless.
- The fire has been stamped out
- You’re having little to no sex and when you are, it feels rote or you're doing it out of a sense of obligation
- Any intimacy you had left has been replaced with small and big arguments
- Conversations have been narrowed down to life admin
- You’re experiencing multiple misunderstandings and irritations
Somehow, despite all of this, you have a deep sense that all is not lost.
That the relationship is salvageable.
You’re not ready to walk away from him.
Maybe you’re on the cusp of walking away, but you really don’t want to.
If you’re looking to revive connection, intimacy and passion with the person you’re not ready to give up on, but you’re not sure how to do this, REGINITE is for you.
You used to have a relationship that was hot, connected and intimate.
You had a beautiful love and friendship, confided everything in one another and loved spending countless hours together.
Now it feels like you’re flatmates, co-parents raising kids or just two ships passing in the night.
Perhaps you’re working hard as the bread-winner, you’re making all the decisions about how to run the household, and you’re exhausted.
Maybe you’re a stay-at-home mum; perhaps you’ve been going through multiple rounds of IVF and it’s impacting your relationship.
Wherever it is that you find yourself right now, one thing is for sure - your relationship feels flat and lifeless.
- The fire has been stamped out
- You’re having little to no sex and when you are, it feels rote or you're doing it out of a sense of obligation
- Any intimacy you had left has been replaced with small and big arguments
- Conversations have been narrowed down to life admin
- You’re experiencing multiple misunderstandings and irritations
Imagine:
Bringing your relationship back from the brink
Feeling attracted to your partner again
Reigniting a passionate, deep and loving relationship with him
Re-establishing true connection and intimacy while possessing the ability to be truly present with your man
Knowing how to create an environment where you are truly seen, heard and held by him
No longer feeling like you have to make all the decisions on your own – your partnership is restored and you work as a team
Having hot, heavy connected sex again
Being able to speak your truth to your partner without feeling like you have to walk on egg shells
Holding each other in the King and Queen energy you both deserve
ALTHOUGH IT MAY NOT FEEL LIKE IT RIGHT NOW...
ALL OF THIS IS POSSIBLE FOR YOU.
I know this because I have lived the experience you’re going through right now.
In my long-term relationship of 8+ years, I felt completely disconnected from my partner.
I felt overwhelmed, lost, disappointed, resentful, angry and sad. I didn’t feel seen, heard or understood.
No matter what I said or did not say, it didn’t seem to be making a difference.
I had no idea how to hold my boundaries, I let resentment build and the relationship got to a point where it felt unsalvageable and that I had no choice but to leave.
However…
If I had known then what I know now, if I had the embodied wisdom to own my part for where things got to, and to advocate for myself in a loving, grounded and present way...
I may not have had to experience the pain of a second divorce, this time with the father of my child.
Today, things are so different.
Five years after we separated, and three years after going through that painful divorce, my ex-husband and I have now reconciled.
Something I never dreamed would happen or even knew I wanted to happen.
With a lot of work, we are living the relationship we both desired back then – one that is raw, honest, deeply connected and passionate.
While we co-created this new version of our relationship together, this would not have been possible without the powerful, life-changing work I did first, on myself.
That work was embodiment.
It was somatics.
It was body-led.
It required deep, honest, often painful inwards reflection that took me beyond logic, reasoning and rationalising.
And it changed my life for the better, forever.
I want to share my personal story with you...
England in 2012,
a year after getting together
Sydney today,
5 years post separation and divorce
What you see below isn't your typical
before and after photo.
The photo on the right is of my partner and I
5 years after separating in 2020
I share what I know now so that you don’t have to burn your relationship to the ground.
Yes, it takes two people to turn a relationship around, and this is not about you doing all the work on your own.
But this work does require you to be completely honest with yourself.
It calls you into a better relationship with yourself, which automatically brings the relationship with your partner along with you.
When you change your relationship with yourself, it changes your relationship with your partner.
I know you crave a different relationship with your partner, and I’ve created a program that is the ideal environment within which you can make that happen.
Inside REIGNITE I share this work and the subsequent lessons I learned, with you.
Inside REIGNITE, you'll gain...
The tools to rebuild the kind of relationship you’ve always longed for - deeper, more connected, and grounded in real intimacy
Clarity around how your unhealed patterns have been playing out in your relationship
Practical tools to help you hold loving boundaries and express your needs without guilt, pressure, or conflict
The courage and capacity to be deeply honest with yourself and your partner
Embodiment practices to reconnect with your body and experience more pleasure and intimacy in everyday life
A powerful reclamation of you - your voice, your truth and your desires
REIGNITE INCLUDES...
An 8-week group coaching container
1 x 1-hour group coaching call every fortnight
Membership to our Facebook group to provide support to you throughout the duration of the program
Homework and journal prompts for the weeks between calls to help integrate your learnings and experience into your body
Embodied moving meditation lessons - this the game-changer. It's what truly moves the needle and what differentiates embodiment work from therapy and counselling. You learn to tune into your body's truth and wisdom, alllowing the most powerful integration of the work we do.
Embodied moving meditation playlists - because every embodiment moving meditation you do needs an epic playlist.
YOUR INVESTMENT
Program cost:
In 8 weeks, I will teach you all the lessons I learned over many years about how to bring honesty, connection, intimacy and passion back into your long-term relationship.
Pay upfront in full - $799
Pay by the month - $440/month for two months
Personalised/longer payment plans are also available - please get in touch to discuss options
Pricing as of August 2025
EARLY BIRD BONUS
Sign up in the first 24 hours of the program launch and you will receive one free 1:1 coaching session with me during the 8-week program, valued at $249!
In addition to the inclusions above, those who sign up within the first 48 hours of the program launch will also receive a 10% discount!
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Without knowing what to expect but knowing I had a problem I was struggling to solve, I participated in a coaching session with Bella.
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“Feeling heard, safe and understood are feelings that are often neglected but yet so important.
Not many people have the ability to help others feel this way, yet Bella has perfected the art of all three, with a natural sincerity.
Not realising I needed it to begin with, my coaching sessions with Bella have helped me identify places within me I didn’t realise needed attention. She helped me regain my self confidence and inner goddess, and I cannot thank her enough."
— Andrea Lauren, Sydney
Along with my formal qualifications, I have the lived experience to guide you through what is a really tricky time in your long-term relationship.
I know how it feels to be living in the slow burn of disconnection – both with yourself, and your partner.
I know how it feels to question EVERYTHING. To question if it’s the relationship that’s the problem, if it’s him or perhaps - you.
To feel guilty for desiring more, even when you know things look good on paper.
To look at your life and wonder if “that’s it”.
To tell yourself it’s enough, when deep down, you know it isn’t.
To have a relationship that is either made of up resentment, anger, disappointment and lots of little fights and misunderstandings – or one that is devoid of any real emotion, connection or intimacy.
Hi, I'm Bella
I'm an internationally recognised Feminine Embodiment Coach, certified by the School of Embodied Arts.
This program is your roadmap to being the best version of yourself, so you can show up exactly the way you want to in your relationship.
So you can feel safe enough in your body to be present, honest, raw and vulnerable – a skill many of us have lost over the years as a result of continuous hurt, resentment and disappointment.
I went through the layers of denial, anger and fire to meet myself in a way that allowed me to be FULLY ME.
To own up to my part in the disconnection, and to open to the possibility of reconnection.
You can’t change your relationship until you’ve taken this journey.
Let me be your guide to get there, over weeks, instead of years.
You used to have a relationship that was hot, connected and intimate.
You had a beautiful love and friendship, confided everything in one another and loved spending countless hours together.
Now it feels like you’re flatmates, co-parents raising kids or just two ships passing in the night.
Perhaps you’re working hard as the bread-winner, you’re making all the decisions about how to run the household, and you’re exhausted.
Maybe you’re a stay-at-home mum; perhaps you’ve been going through multiple rounds of IVF and it’s impacting your relationship.
Wherever it is that you find yourself right now, one thing is for sure - your relationship feels flat and lifeless.
- The fire has been stamped out
- You’re having little to no sex and when you are, it feels rote or you're doing it out of a sense of obligation
- Any intimacy you had left has been replaced with small and big arguments
- Conversations have been narrowed down to life admin
- You’re experiencing multiple misunderstandings and irritations
So many women I have worked with have reclaimed the kind of relationship they want with themselves and their partners.
The same is possible for you.
Here's what some of my clients have had to say...
That we are all juggling a million things – life, work, staying healthy, being a good daughter, friend, mum… we all wear so many hats.
Signing up for a coaching program may feel like another “to do”.
But here’s the thing -
Consider what life will look like if nothing changes. When you look down the road 3, 6, 12 months from now… what if life is exactly the same as it is right now.
What if your relationship looks the same as it does right now?
I know that you wouldn’t be here if something didn’t feel off. If you had a sense that things could be so much better.
They can be!
You used to have a relationship that was hot, connected and intimate.
You had a beautiful love and friendship, confided everything in one another and loved spending countless hours together.
Now it feels like you’re flatmates, co-parents raising kids or just two ships passing in the night.
Perhaps you’re working hard as the bread-winner, you’re making all the decisions about how to run the household, and you’re exhausted.
Maybe you’re a stay-at-home mum; perhaps you’ve been going through multiple rounds of IVF and it’s impacting your relationship.
Wherever it is that you find yourself right now, one thing is for sure - your relationship feels flat and lifeless.
- The fire has been stamped out
- You’re having little to no sex and when you are, it feels rote or you're doing it out of a sense of obligation
- Any intimacy you had left has been replaced with small and big arguments
- Conversations have been narrowed down to life admin
- You’re experiencing multiple misunderstandings and irritations
This program is not for the woman who wants to point the finger of blame at her partner.
It’s not for the woman who wants to vent with other women about the state of their relationship – that’s what girls’ nights are for.
This program is for the woman who is ready to look at the role she has played in getting the relationship to this point.
It’s for the woman who is ready to meet the unhealed parts of herself to see how this is contributing to where things are at.
It’s for the woman who isn’t ready to give up on her partner and is ready to take responsibility for her side of the street.
In as little as 8 weeks, you could be looking at a very different you, and a very different relationship.
What you need to know....
You will feel more ready than ever to show up as the truest version of you, in a grounded, present and confident way.
You will feel prepared to have the necessary conversations with your partner to truly express your desires and needs, in an embodied way, so that you can start to reclaim the connection, intimacy and passion you crave in your long-term relationship.
You used to have a relationship that was hot, connected and intimate.
You had a beautiful love and friendship, confided everything in one another and loved spending countless hours together.
Now it feels like you’re flatmates, co-parents raising kids or just two ships passing in the night.
Perhaps you’re working hard as the bread-winner, you’re making all the decisions about how to run the household, and you’re exhausted.
Maybe you’re a stay-at-home mum; perhaps you’ve been going through multiple rounds of IVF and it’s impacting your relationship.
Wherever it is that you find yourself right now, one thing is for sure - your relationship feels flat and lifeless.
- The fire has been stamped out
- You’re having little to no sex and when you are, it feels rote or you're doing it out of a sense of obligation
- Any intimacy you had left has been replaced with small and big arguments
- Conversations have been narrowed down to life admin
- You’re experiencing multiple misunderstandings and irritations
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
How long does the program run for?
The program runs for 8 weeks starting on Monday October 13th, 2025.
The remaining calls will happen every fortnight on a Tuesday evening at the same time.
What do I need to join?
All you need is a laptop or phone, a WIFI connection and a Facebook account. The group calls will take place over Zoom.
Will people be able to see me on the group coaching calls?
It’s up to you whether you turn your camera on or not. I understand that you may desire confidentiality, and that is completely okay. I will encourage you to turn your camera on, however, as this enhances intimacy within the group, as well as closeness and vulnerability – skills we will be focusing on as part of the program.
What bonuses do you offer?
Sign up in the first 24 hours of the program launch and you will receive one free 1:1 coaching session with me during the 8-week program, valued at $249!
In addition, those who sign up within the first 24 - 48 hours of the program launch will also receive a 10% discount on the overall cost of the program.
What do we do in the weeks between calls?
You will be part of the community of women in the program via our Facebook group. In the weeks between calls, I will be dropping in tips, reminders, journal prompts and homework for you to complete in time for the next group call.
This will be a supportive space for all participants, and I will be answering your questions in that group space as well.
If there are any questions I haven't answered, feel free to reach out to me - hello@bellakcoaching.com
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